Context:
Currently single
Dating to be defined as there being a mutual romantic vibe + "having the expectation of it lasting an undetermined amount of time" as opposed to "Seeing each other but knowing it has an expiration date
By the above definition I haven't dated anyone in 2024
Some general questions:
What is your age and sexual/romantic orientation?
What part of the world do you live in?
What is the size, gender balance, and relationship success rate of your friendship group?
Are you actively attempting to find someone, or planning to in the near future?
What dating methods do you intend to use?
What are your political views e.g. in terms of economics, government, and progressivism (particularly gender equality)?
What are your free-time hobbies, and what topics do you enjoy chatting about, both for small talk and deep discussions?
Do you have any neurodivergence?
Do you find it difficult to enjoy the company of, compassionately care about, and trust people you meet?
These questions vastly affect the odds in my opinion
Good luck :)
31, heterosexual
SF
Large I guess? It's the SF friendblob, hundreds of people interacting across a number of house parties or other events. Most date within this scene.
Yes
I think all? (Apps, including more obscure ones like cuties.app, continuing living life where I have a reasonable exposure to new people, I have a date me doc etc)
I'm not very vocally political, but lean libertarian in general
I spent most of my free time socializing, going to house parties, etc. I also go social dancing, ecstatic dancing, read books, sometimes I write, go to restaurants. I like to talk about work, both my own and the other person, as well as our life stories, recent happenings in our lives etc
Not diagnosed. I don't have ADHD (I have high executive function without need for drugs!l But probably I'm into the 'tism to some degree
I don't! People are nice
@JoseLuisRicon Sounds like you're in a pretty good situation for all the factors :)
Kinda surprised you haven't already found someone tbh, what do you think is the main limiting factor?
Would you care to share the date-me doc link?