This market is about Sun, a straight 27 year-old Chinese American man living in Seoul, South Korea. See "About Sun" below.
He appeared in this YouTube video, in which he discusses his thoughts on dating (among other things): https://youtu.be/Mm_NmYdcb9I
-- Real-money betting market information --
There is a corresponding real money-market on this question among Sun's friends, with identical rules below. As of 10/17/2026, that market is currently trading at
25% -- $59 USD on Yes vs. $177 on No
-- About Sun --
Sun is a straight 27-year old Chinese American man.
Height: 5'9" (175 cm)
Weight: 162 lb (73.6 kg)
Bio and job
Born and raised in the United States.
Attended university in the US for computer science (bachelor's + Master's).
Worked at Meta as a software engineer for 4 years.
Moved to Seoul 2 years ago.
Worked at Seoul National University for 1.5 years as an AI researcher.
Currently working as an independent researcher in Seoul.
Dating history
Only 1 relationship, in high school, lasting 2 months.
During 2 years in Korea so far, has been on 7 dates with 4 different women.
Met them via introduction by mutual friends (2), was approached at a bar (1), and via dating app (1).
Dating app performance
Went on 1 date after spending 1 month on Coffee Meets Bagel.
No dates from other dating apps (Bumble, Hinge, Tinder), after ~2 weeks of effort.
Has quit dating apps.
Dating effort
Sun is currently open to dating but not making active efforts.
Not using dating apps, not going to dating events, not asking out strangers in public.
Language
Sun is a native English speaker
He is currently taking Korean classes (level 3) and can have basic conversations in Korean, but is not comfortable dating in Korean.
He will probably never be comfortable having a long-term relationship in Korean only, and this has so far been a significant barrier in the Seoul dating market.
Hobbies
Running - member of a university running club, currently preparing for a marathon.
Going to art galleries with friends.
Social circles
Meets about 10 new women per month (at networking events, running club, Korean class, etc.).
Has 20-30 female friends in Seoul, 5-10 male friends.
Has mostly Korean friends, with a few foreigner friends.
Type
Sun is primarily attracted to East Asians (Korean, Chinese, Japanese).
Religion
Agnostic atheist
Mental health
Diagnosed with ADHD.
Recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder and starting medication.
Has been seeing a therapist in Seoul for 1.5 years. Previously saw 3 therapists in the US at different points in time.
MBTI
Originally INTJ.
But now sometimes tests as ENTJ/ENTP after moving to Korea.
OCEAN personality: https://bigfive-test.com/result/6a8dccd4690f8f936124da91
93/100 Openness to experience
79/100 Conscientiousness
76/100 Extraversion
92/100 Agreeableness
66/100 Neuroticism
Aella's Sexual Market Value quiz: bottom 15th percentile
Highest SMV subscore: Life Path (99.5) This means fundamental dealbreaker things such as divorce, marriage, polyamory/monogamy, kids, career, etc.
Lowest SMV subscore: Character (8) This means your personality is the least attractive
The answers on Character/personality were decided by surveying 3 friends and averaging their answers.
-- AI opinion --
"What is the probability that Sun will enter a relationship?"
Assuming Sun stays in Seoul (current plan)
10% in 1 year
20% in 2 years
40-45% in 5 years
If Sun moves to a US city with a high Asian population,
15-20% in 1 year
30-35% in 2 years
55-60% in 5 years
-- Rules --
"Getting a girlfriend" is defined as:
Sun considers a partner to be his "girlfriend".
That partner considers Sun to be their "boyfriend".
If Sun gets a girlfriend, this market will immediately resolve as Yes. Note that even if a relationship begins but breaks up before October 11, 2027, this market still resolves as Yes.
Sun himself will not bet in this market. Sun will not try to get or avoid a girlfriend for the express purpose of manipulating this market. Sun will not instruct a partner to lie to affect the resolution of this market.
Feel free to ask Sun any questions in the comments about himself or his dating life.
Rules written on 10/11/2026.
Edit on 10/13/2026: Just to clarify, this is not a bet that I am trying to "win". I don't necessarily want a girlfriend; I'm NOT explicitly hoping that the answer to this question is Yes. I'm open to dating but not actively looking right now. This prediction market is partially a prediction on "Will Sun change his mind about wanting to date within the next year?".
People are also trading
@overflow Hey, your SMV is better than mine!
Also now that I've seen how it's calculated, I think this quiz's data might not be very good.
@QBreezy Can I ask you about your thought process when you bet? You seem confident given you bet a lot (relative to others), so would like to know more if you noticed something in particular.
@sun0 I think you are a fairly social person going out of their way to meet people. In my experience, this usually leads to a relationship. I think the odds that I bet on were too low but the only confounder is being in a foreign country.
@prismatic Thanks for your thoughts! Definitely being a non-Korean speaker in Korea is the #2 reason given by my friends who bet No with real money (#1 reason is Sun has high standards/Sun is not willing to invest in a relationship).
I am taking Aella's Sexual Market Value Quiz and will post the results here soon.
Aella (@Aella_Girl) on X
Results:
Your SMV equivalent is Barney the Dinosaur (Barney & Friends) (1th percentile)
Your highest SMV subscore:
Life Path (78) This means fundamental dealbreaker things such as divorce, marriage, polyamory/monogamy, kids, career, etc.
Your lowest SMV subscore:
Character (0.5) This means your personality is the least attractive
For the personality questions, I asked my friend to fill them out for me. Some of his answers were very surprising to me, so I will retake the quiz with answers from other friends of mine (averaging all my friends' opinions for each question).
Updated results after averaging opinions from 3 friends:
Your SMV equivalent is Michael Scott (The Office) (15th percentile)
Your highest SMV subscore:
Life Path (99.5) This means fundamental dealbreaker things such as divorce, marriage, polyamory/monogamy, kids, career, etc.
Your lowest SMV subscore:
Character (8) This means your personality is the least attractive
