My partner Nate and I just broke up due to me wanting kids and him not wanting them. Our relationship was pretty good before this and he estimates wanting marriage/life partner type thing with me chance at 70% in the world where I also didn't want kids.

He hasn't been down for any arrangement I've proposed that involve kids and him in any way so far.

I'm devastated and really want to get back with him, but I also definitely want kids.

Will something change in the next 3 years (or by mid August 2027) where somehow we end up seriously or primarily dating again? Any circumstance that involves us getting back together seriously counts.

• Update 2024-26-12 (PST) (AI summary of creator comment): Current status:

  • We are now dating again, but it is not serious or primary.