I'm going to try to lose weight for the umpteenth time this year, seriously this time. I have made various attempts in the past 3 years, with minimal success (<2kg lost and kept off).
My attempts have included IF which i stuck to for ~1 month on average before quitting, and ramping up exercise which I later learnt was mostly not sufficient on its own. I tried counting calories for 1 week but found it tedious and overwhelming, so I'm super disinclined to do it even when I know it might be effective. My exercise habits are excellent, i run or go to the gym at least 4 days a week consistently.
Thinking back on my failed attempts, the most likely culprits for my failures were a) super-ambitious short term goals, which led to some quick gains but an unsustainable change in lifestlye b) personal stress which led me to fallling off the diet wagon
I think this time I might be more successful because:
i'm chastened enough to accept a more gradual but sustainable weight loss rate. 12kg in 5 months seems eminently doable to me.
my past tries have given me a lot of reps in various failures modes so I know what to do but also what not to do e.g focus on diet not exercise, prefer strength training to cardio, the importance of sleep, stress management etc
i'll be attending my first in-person office event in July and don't want to show up fat ;)
Some reasons I might fail:
I have been similarly motivated in the past, but still failed
I have never lost more than 2.5kg over a 6 month period in the past
Since the year began, i have not lost any weight despite running ~100km so far and going to the gym ~10 times, because I haven't adopted any dietary restrictions effectively yet. I started the year with a 1 week average weight of 92.81 and my last week's average was 92.82
My stress coping skills are quite bad, so even a tiny spike in stress is usually enough to knock me off the wagon and undo any gains. I anticipate a few high-stress periods over the coming months, but my meta-awareness of that should hopefully help in dealing with them
I'll share a spreadsheet with my daily weigh-ins (which i use to generate a weekly average) and exercise+IF log once this hits 10 bettors. I'll also be sharing my own personal assessments once every ~2 weeks. I'll resolve this YES as soon as I reach a weekly average of 80.8kg or NO if August 1st rolls by without having accomplished that. If I judge this goal out of reach even earlier, I will probably resolve early as well which shouldn't be an issue since it would be apparent to everyone else.
Weight log here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vQW3XVik23-cwEBnJErZSSmELUnrzZ5g846e_NXumtMgO7m9Deo36sOi1r2Jx75A_a-rcBp-3dTEeRB/pubhtml
Manifold might not be a good motivational tool, from the "don't share your goals" perspective. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/neuroscience-in-everyday-life/201801/why-sharing-your-goals-makes-them-less-achievable
I wish you health and happiness
You're clearly working very hard and trying lot's of things. I am curious if you have tried:
Cold turkey ban on calorie rich foods (Oil, butter, meats, refined sugars). Essentially switching to whole food plant based, where most of your food is vegatables. I have a strong opinion here because I am essentially doing the opposite (abandoning whole foods in order to put on weight)
Using a treadmill while working. You can potentially burn 400-800Kcals a day doing this
published a weight + exercise log that i'll be updating daily here https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vQW3XVik23-cwEBnJErZSSmELUnrzZ5g846e_NXumtMgO7m9Deo36sOi1r2Jx75A_a-rcBp-3dTEeRB/pubhtml