"split second misinformation"(not a real term yet, coined by me just now) = a sentence constructed in such a manner that your internal prediction about what message will be communicated is pushed in the wrong direction for ~1 second.

for example saying: "the gift you gave me a week ago(positive tone), i lost that(negative tone), im sorry" instead of saying: "I'm sorry, i lost the gift you gave me a week ago(all in a negative tone)". The first example leaves the interpretation that you want to say something else about the gift for a short period, the second pre-clarifies this by saying sorry first, making for a slightly more digestible message(imo)

remove from your life = every message stated while you hear it is constructed in a manner to remove "split second misinformation", this does not impact the thinking of other people or require effort for them, as it happens automatically in this hypothetical.

feel free to ask anything in the comments. I did a bad job explaining what i mean xD

Edit: i forgot to include an "unsure" option, so if you unsure just guess how much you would pay, no need to be exact