i have never done something like this.
i have to tell her i have a crush on her and use the word date.
I was supposed to see her today but she is not at work.
ask follow up questions if you want.
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@jojomonsta7777 we need to know the story! We got invested (no pun intended) into the question.
Upd. I've noticed another comment already.
@higherLEVELING It was very difficult, I was planning to say it at the very beginning but it didn't feel right. So after an hour I told her and she said she doesn't have a crush on me and she had to wait and recover from the shock a bit I think. Then she was very nice about it, asking if it's fine for me if we keep spending time.
@jojomonsta7777 not the best outcome, but still not the worst. Did you mention to her that you had taken a cold shower every day for a whole month? Just show her your shower market (Will one day in June pass without me taking a cold shower? | Manifold) as proof and say "if i were lying, this wouldn't have resolved no". then wink. She'll be speechless.
@jojomonsta7777 That sounds like a pretty positive outcome, actually. A crush isn't necessary to want to spend time with someone. You might even win her over to romance, if time together is what she's offering. Be patient with it, give both of yourselves time to decide what you ultimately want.
@TylerColeman I had a crush, went on several dates, too. She declined to be exclusive, and I moved to Wisconsin (for a job opportunity, but still). If I'd had more self-esteem, I might still have won her over, but I was devastated, at the time. Young love.
@jojomonsta7777 Good luck! I've sold all my NO shares. Edit: I should hedge with 1 NO share given the high confidence (92%)