Me, male, 28 living in Berlin.

She, female 36 living in Switzerland.

We are 2 weeks into a fresh relationship.

She told me she’s a dominatrix but claims that she’s not sleeping with clients.

Reasons to mistrust:

1. She basically lied to me for two weeks about her job, telling me she was working in marketing when she was actually also working as a dominatrix in a S/M studio.

2. She was telling me about coworkers and clients as if they were working in her marketing job, when actually they were part of the S/M studio.

3. I looked up the S/M studio website and on it, sex is not listed as being offered but also not as a taboo.

4. I found another, shadier website for the same studio, and there sex is being offered.

5. She previously lied to me about other, smaller things.

Reasons to trust:

1. She was ashamed about it and I believe her she was scared to tell me.

2. She was truthful about other, smaller things (e.g. touching clients‘ genitals) where she knew that I wouldn’t like them a lot and where she was probably also uncomfortable to share them.

Info

This market will resolve to no if she won’t admit otherwise or I feel it’s reasonable to mistrust her.

• Update 2025-02-20 (PST) (AI summary of creator comment): Definition of Sex:

  • Sex is defined as vaginal intercourse.

  • Only vaginal intercourse with a client will be counted as evidence of sleeping with a client.

• Update 2025-02-20 (PST) (AI summary of creator comment): Clarification on Resolution Criteria:

  • Event Count: A single occurrence of vaginal intercourse with a client during the timeframe of the relationship will count as evidence.

  • This single instance, as per the definition of sex (vaginal intercourse) outlined earlier, is sufficient to resolve the market.