Should i ask out my crush? Who also happens to be my best friend 🙂
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We have been friends for 3 plus years kinda best friend….i like her a lot🥹

But i’m afraid i’ll lose her….uk the friendship

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I’m going to resolve this question as yes

I just wanted a clarity on how i feel….also i’m really sorry for not replying on this thread earlier….i was busy

Finally i’m gonna ask her out and ig lets hope for the best…hehe

Good luck!

How did it go?

Got shot down😅😅😅

She said she never thought of me like “that” ans stuff like that

Head up

Do you think you'll still remain friends?

I mean i would like to…..but I don’t think that would be possible🙃

It’s already kinda weird between us……maybe with time it will get better. Idk :\

Oof yea, do you still think it was worth asking her out anyway?

i think so….it will be better for me this way. Uk instead of suffocating inside me getting uneasy, jealous everytime she goes out with someone ig definitely better in the long run…..but yeah i’m definitely sad more cuz of i lost my best friend probably the greatest one i ever had till now

with this little info I'd say ask her out, but

if she declines then it's not her responsibility to make you get over her(!) (I think that's a main way your friendship could break, I myself would and did distance for 2~4 weeks and pick stuff up afterwards again)

Also some people love being chased a lot, make sure to properly do that before you ask (I think go have some dates meetups that subtlely decrease in plausible deniability about your feelings), so you won't be second-guessing any refusal she makes. If she refused you at your best, it'll be easier to get over her. (source: I just made this up)

If she's allergic to hidden schemes, then be upfront about your feelings. Though don't go start believing she doesn't like your secret effort because that means you have to do less work for it. You'll have to be at your best anyway. (same source)

What are the resolution criteria?

Also roughly how many other close friends do you have?