@Aella is writing a series of posts about "How To Be Good At Sex," aimed at men. (Like me!)
I'm considering getting a subscription so I can read it.
If I do, will there be any tips that (a) I think is worth trying, and (b) gets unambiguously positive feedback?
(About me: 30ish, male, poly, largely vanilla but mildly-to-moderately into the D side of D/S, several occasional sexual partners. Their median is: female, poly, into the S side; almost certainly less weird than Aella in bed. Explicit post-game analyses are rare, but volunteering "aspect X was unusually good/bad" after the fact is common, so if I do anything notable, I strongly expect to get a clear signal so I can resolve this market as appropriate.)
This market resolves:
YES if I read Aella's posts, try something she suggests, and think it was clearly well-received;
NO if I read Aella's posts and either don't think anything's worth trying, or it isn't unambiguously good;
N/A if I don't read Aella's posts by 2024-01-01.
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fwiw my guess is that, if there is any improvement, it'll be less concrete in terms of 'trying specific things' and much more subtle, like happening in fast/intuitive/minor reactions. It's generally pretty hard for women to explain what makes some men better at sex than other men outside of specific and clear compatibilities, so I would be mildly surprised if a lady could easily articulate why she's enjoying sex more
@Aella Is it possible that it’s a mindset? My intuition would be men are good if they focus on enjoying themselves instead of thinking I need to be awesome.