what's the minimum requirement for "romantic encounter" here?

@shankypanky Doesn't have to be sex. Can't just be a friendly side-hug. I'm not sure I can enumerate necessary and sufficient conditions, but I can answer questions about specific cases.

@DanielFilan sure I don't want or need to know any details - definitely best to respect his privacy. just curious what's romance to you as everyone has different qualifications, so you've said enough to make it clearer :)